Phonics is simply the link between the sounds we say and the letters we write. Understanding a few key ideas lets you support your child's reading at home without contradicting what school teaches.
English is written with an alphabetic code: letters (and small groups of letters) stand for the sounds in speech. Phonics teaches that code systematically, so children can turn print into sound and read words they have never seen before. Most English schools use synthetic phonics, which teaches children to sound out a word left to right and blend the sounds together.
This is the single most useful thing for parents to get right. When helping your child read, say the sound a letter makes, not its alphabet name. The letter s is "sss", not "ess"; m is "mmm", not "em". Keep the sounds crisp and avoid adding an "uh" on the end — say "t", not "tuh", or "cat" turns into "cuh-a-tuh", which is hard to blend.
English has around 44 sounds (phonemes) but only 26 letters, so some sounds are spelled with two or more letters working as a team (a digraph or trigraph):
Children meet these in a set order at school. You don't need to teach them all — just reinforce whatever your child is currently working on.
Two skills sit at the heart of early reading and spelling:
A gentle way to practise is "robot talk": you say a word in robot sounds ("f-i-sh") and your child guesses the word, then swap roles.
A decodable book only uses the sounds a child has already been taught, so they can actually sound the words out and succeed. That success builds confidence. Your child's school usually sends these home — resist the urge to swap them for harder "real" books too soon. Keep sharing rich picture books as well, reading those aloud yourself for enjoyment and vocabulary.
Some common words can't be fully sounded out yet because they use spellings the child hasn't learned — words like the, said, was, you, one. These are taught as "tricky" or "common exception" words: point out the part that behaves as expected and the part you just have to remember. They come up so often that children learn them quickly with a little repetition.
Reading develops unevenly, and a slow start is common and usually temporary. But do raise it with the class teacher if your child is consistently guessing words from the picture rather than sounding out, is frustrated to the point of avoiding books, or seems to forget sounds they knew last week. Teachers would always rather hear early.
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